Virus - How Safe Is Your Cell Phone?

According to a report by Chetan Sharma 84% of all mobile devices sold within the United States during 4th quarter 2012 were smart phones.  This pushes the total market share of smartphones to be over the 50% mark.  A trend that shows no signs of decreasing any time soon.  As technology advances, the desire to have one device that does it all becomes more and more of a reality. Not only are we carrying a phone, but also a camera, video recorder, computer,  hand held gaming system, calculator, and more apps than we know what to do with that allow our phones to be and do nearly anything we desire. Wanna watch a movie? Netflix to the rescue.  Tired of carrying a check book to record your debit card transactions? Give Spensa Pro a try.  Love music? Find all you could ever need with Pandora, Slacker, iHeart Radio, and SoundHound. Movie Buffs look no further than IMDB.  It's no doubt, however, that with the good comes the bad. For all the benefits to be gained from smartphones, it was just a matter of time before cyber crime found its way into the devices we use every day.

Just last week the mobile security company Lookout found the malware they have named "BadNews" a new malware trojan that has one disturbing characteristic which allowed it to sneak past the security system used by Google Play Store.  There have been billions of applications downloaded from the Google Play Store since its inception, with new applications released every day.  Because of this, and the reality of the potential for malware and visrus's to creep into the network the people at Google have implemented a new layer of scurity to keep your device and information secure. So, how is it that this newly found "BadNews" threat has found it's way past the security at Google Play Store? Well, in their defense, there will never be a completely foolproof system as the industry and technology changes so do the threats and that is exactly how BadNews has found it's way into our lives.  Because as bad as BadNews is, it isn't the major culprit.  BadNews is simply the tool in which the fraud malware AlphaSMS is being distributed to unsuspecting smartphone users world wide.  The good news for American cell phone users is that as a whole most apps infected with the BadNews malware have originated in Russian applications.  This does not mean that you are out of the woods, just that we as users need to be more cautious in our downloads and making sure that we protect the devices that we depend on daily.

So, how does this software work, and back to our previous question how is it getting past Google?  The trick is in a delayed deployment feature built into the malware.  In its infancy BadNews appears to be nothing more than a harmless if not annoying advertising network. This facade is what has allowed the developers of BadNews to sneak into Google Play Store. Once in your phone BadNews pushes false advertising and news offers to your device just waiting for you to click on one.  At which time it pushes out an even more aggressive fraud malware in the form of AlphaSMS. This has been possible because of the delay in deployment therefore it sneaks in undetected at the time it is admitted into the Google Play Store.

Now, for the real question, What can you do to protect yourself and your cell phone safe and secure?

First and foremost I highly recommend installing Lookout Mobile Security on your device.  While I've never had a virus on my phone I would never take the chance.  Remember that smart phone in your pocket, is at its root a computer, and just like  your laptop and desktop computers it is vulnerable.  Protect yourself!

Do you ever get text messages from unfamiliar numbers urging you to go to a site to pay your bill, claim a prize, or alerts you to a potential virus on your phone?  These and any other text from a number you are not familiar with are best deleted, as they often contain a virus or other form of fraudulant link in which cybercriminals are able to collect your sensitive personal information.

And of course always use common sense when downloading apps and updates to any device you may have. This may be the one step that most people forget, we get comfortable with our devices, and gain a false sense of security when we are downloading from the Google Play Store.  Ensure that the app you are downloading is from a legit source, take your time, double check online to see if you're getting the right app and not a damaging look a like.

I'm tired

I've had this post running around in my head for months.  Honestly, I have to say it was October when I first started putting it together in my head.  By the time I finally figured out what I wanted to put in this place it was January, and I didn't want it to look like just another resolution post.  Because it's not about resolutions.  It's about finally being me.

I'm tired...
I'm tired of feeling the way that I do.  The way that people in my past have made me feel.  I'm tired of not knowing how to move on past those hurts and hard feelings.  I'm tired of feeling like I can't, when I know that I can.  I'm tired of being unhappy with who I am, the way I look, the way I feel. I'm tired, don't have the drive to do and be what I want to be. My head spins and my body aches.  I'm tired of being tired.

So, now I'm going to do something about it.

Oh, sure some of these things I've been doing for quite some time now but need to adjust them to better suit my goals, and some are ones I've only casually considered.

One of the first steps was for me to put an all out honest effort into going back to school.  Years ago I tried to go back to Community College, I aced my one and only class.  But I didn't have the support at home to allow me to continue, I was told that it was foolish and a waste of my time to go back to school after such a long time.  Now, when I look back I realize those were the words of a high school dropout that didn't want me to realize that there was more to life than working a dead end job and drinking. Time went on and once again I tried to go back to school, but once more someone else's agenda got in my way.  Every time I sat down for a lecture, or to study I was interrupted with demands to do what he needed done, when he wanted done.  There was no regard for what I wanted, or needed at that time. Which led to poor grades, so I dropped out. Obviously school was not to be for me. I was stupid, and would never succeed at anything.  Maybe I was part of the problem, I didn't stand up for myself, I didn't make it a priority to succeed.  It was at this point in my life I decided that school wasn't an option for me. I wasn't ever going to be able to do it and do it well.  Thankfully, I met someone who challenged me to be better to find who I really was and somewhere this idea came from, that I could actually do it.  I could go back to school, I could succeed.  But I was terrified of failing again, so I didn't just jump into it. I made a commitment to myself, that I would wait a year and if I was still driven to study and go back so school then I would do it.  I found the school, I knew what I wanted to study, I knew where I wanted to be.  I'd set my sights high.  First I would get a certificate in Paralegal Studies and I'd be able to get a good job in order to go back to law school.  Yes, law school...who cares if I'm in my 30s with 4 kids I am going to be a lawyer.   Now, I'm not going to deny that things have changed since then.  A year went by and I went to enroll in the certificate program as planned, only to find that I qualified for financial aid if I enrolled in the Associated program instead.  Who was I to turn that down!


I look at it this way, the further I can get with grants the better off I will be in the long run. So, yes my plan did change again this last summer when I found out I was able to transfer from the Associates program to the Bachelors program and continue to get financial aid.  I'll actually have my Associates this spring..YAY me.  Did I mention that I've managed to carry a 3.9 GPA.  It was a 4.0 for a long time and one class killed me.  But I must say I'm incredibly proud of myself, and that is what keeps me going.  I couldn't do it along though, my children and my fiance are amazing, they cheer me on, they make sure I get my class work done, and make sure that I attend my lectures when I need to.  For that I couldn't  be more thankful.  They are the reason for my success!

This is just one of the many changes I've made. And possibly the most important because it was the first, and I've maintained it successfully.  If I could do this then I can do anything!

Chicken Noodle Soup

I have a big family. Not to mention a fiance that takes his own lunch to work. So, I cook big, thus my large recipes...lol

With that said, I have to admit I made a great chicken noodle soup. I started it last night, I took Tyson Boneless Skinless frozen chicken breasts in the 2.5 lb bag, still frozen and put them in a stock pot covering them with water, and 4 cups of Swanson's Chicken broth. Turned it on low, and left it for about 2 hours.

When I came back to it I added about a tbsp of garlic powder, and 4 bay leaves. Then I let it simmer again for....you guessed it 2 hours.

Once that all cooled off I put it in the fridge over night.

When I got home from work today I pulled the chicken mix out of the fridge, diced up the breasts, (OK OK so I really just kinda shredded them) they were so tender they just about fell apart. Once they were all shredded up and back in the broth I brought them to a simmer, while I diced up a cup of carrots, and a cup of celery. I also added a good shaking of paprika, and sage, as well as a tsp of roasted garlic. I left that on simmer for about an hour, until the veggies were tender.

Now, about 15 minutes before I pulled the pot off the heat I boiled up a pot of water and made some Barilla Campanelle pasta. I don't like to put my pasta in the soup after a second heating the pasta tends to be mushy.

Now, to serve it up....

One big spoonful of pasta, and cover with a couple ladles of the chicken and broth.

It was to say the least.....YUM

Next time I think I'll just do the chicken and broth in the crock-pot.



* yes I agree I did forget the pictures again.

Grades

Last year, I was talking to my Fiance about hopes and dreams. Things I wanted to do, and be. I had never had this conversation with anyone. No, one had ever seemed to care what I wanted. I was just expected to do certain things.

I told him I wanted to go back to school. Now, I must confess that this is something I had tried twice before, and failed. I had no support, no one to cheer me on, no one to help me balance life as a mom, wife, and student. I was expected to do everything at home, and if I had any spare time I could work on schooling. I was set up to fail.

Here was this fantastic man, telling me that I could do it. He would support me, he would let me lean on him. He would help me balance life and school. Home, kids, job, school....could I really do it? I was scared. So, I said that I would wait a year. And if I still wanted to do it, I would. I wanted to do it right this time.

Fast forward to this summer. I took the leap....I started taking paralegal classes. I was scared and excited. And most of all determined that I was going to succeed.

Shortly after starting classes I read an article in Woman's Day magazine, about how several amazing women made over their lives. One of them was an inspirational young lady of 69 years. Her name is Mary Price. I read her story several times, feeling stronger each time. Her tips for making over her education included reminding yourself that you don't always have to get the best score possible. That "Sometimes good enough is good enough". I was inspired! YES, this is what I needed to hear.

I always tell my children to be realistic about their grades. Not everyone will get a perfect score every time. We are all human. If you apply yourself, and do your very best that is what matters. No, this is not a get of jail free card that allows you to slack off and not do your work. I'm happy to say that my children are all carrying very good grades.

But what about me? What standard do I hold myself too? Simple

PERFECTION.

If I get less than an A+ in a course then I am angry with myself. I have let myself down. Its not good enough. The only grade is the best grade. No matter what my fiance says I cannot accept anything but. I know that I shouldn't be so hard on myself, and I honestly wish I wasn't. But.....I can't do anything about it.

I'm interested to hear what other Moms going back to school have to say.

Some times....

It really is just the little things that make my day.

Like dinner tonight. We had left over chili from Halloween. I wanted to use it up tonight. So, I put it in a casserole dish covered it with a Mexican 4 cheese blend. Layered biscuits on top and cook per the instructions on the biscuit package.

It was YUM! I know I know I should have taken a picture of it.

We served it with a big dollop of sour cream on top!

Everyone loved it, and that was enough to really make my day.

Class is in session...

Recently I feel like my whole life is about learning. Every day, everything I do.

I am learning to be a mother to my four wonderful children. Which includes learning to let go. They are getting older, and I have to give up some of that control and let them make decisions. My oldest got a job, which made me panic, had I prepared her for the work force? My 2nd child and only son, well I helped him buy a car. Which involved learning to trust that he has learned the fundamentals, and will be a safe driver. My 3rd child is 10 and starting to express her own style, likes and wants. Which is teaching me to just LET GO and let her grow. Thankfully my youngest has not brought about a learning moment for me yet. I'm sure it will come soon.

I am learning to be a paralegal. Yes, this is huge, it requires class time, lectures, homework, exams, and study study study. It also requires that I be committed and follow through on something. This is something I have never been good at. I easily get bored with things and forget about them. This is not the first time I have gone back to school. But it is my most successful attempt. I have completed two courses. With an A and an A+. I've just finished my third class, and so far I have an A. We'll see what happens after I get my last 3 assignments and 3 exams graded.

I am learning to be a partner in a strong and healthy relationship. Yeah, that's a big one. I've had some pretty horrific things happen in my life. And now I have to overcome them and be the partner that the man in my life deserves. A friend, lover, companion, partner, among other things. We have a strong relationship, but I have so much to learn to make it better. Trust, giving up control, even the basics of housecleaning and time management.

But most importantly, I'm learning to be me. The woman I was made to be. Strong, and independent, smart and funny, but still able to lean on the man I love and let him take the lead. Able to show my EX that I'm not the lazy, worthless piece of trash that he thinks I am. He beat me down and taught me how to be nothing, less than nothing. And now I am relearning how to be.....ME.

Why am I here?

I've had another blog for some time, and its really been ignored. I just can't get my head around the topics it was meant to discuss. So, I've gone on hiatus and hope that one day I will feel up to writing there again.

Until then I'm here. To talk about myself, lol, what blogger doesn't! To talk about my fiance, my children, my soon to be ex husband, my fiance's soon to be ex wife. Food, living and loving in a wonderful relationship, working, school, and my pets. And of course...COFFEE.